Week 10 - Attitudes

What a wonderful week this has been. My parents were in town last weekend, and I got to spend Thanksgiving with my son and his girlfriend. I wanted to share just a little of what I am thankful for...

Those things I am grateful for, are too many to mention, so I picked just a few. I am grateful for a Heavenly Father who sees my potential, but loves me for who I am. I am grateful for a Savior who loves me so much, who atoned for my sins. I am grateful for the Holy Ghost who comforts and guides me. I am grateful for my son, who is my inspiration. I am grateful for my parents who encourage me. I am grateful for my faith, which makes me want to be a better person.

This week in class we learned a lot about balancing family and career. As a single mom, I knew the struggles related to work and family. I learned very quickly that we only get this one chance to watch our little ones grow. They are in our care for a short time in the grand scheme of things and this time is precious and should not be taken lightly. I am sad for the milestones I missed, but oh so grateful for those I got to share. I will hold them near to me always.

We were asked to answer the following questions this week:

 What is your attitude toward money?

I have always been anxious about money. There are times when it has been a real struggle, and often times I had to choose which bill would be paid. Now that I am doing better financially, I find it hard to spend money. I tend to hold onto it for fear of losing it, or not having enough of it.

 How can your view of money affect the way you live?

 Sometimes I feel trapped by money. I feel anxious when I make a large purchase or when something breaks down and needs to be repaired. I always feel like I will run out and not be able to meet my commitments.

What rules are recommended for prospering?

 This week we read “Attitude on Money” by Stephen W. Gibson. In this article we learn there are rules to be followed in order to prosper. They are as follows:

“Rule 1. Seek the Lord and have hope in him.

Rule 2. Keep the commandments that includes the temporal ones, tithing and fast offerings.

Rule 3. Think about money and plan how you can become self-reliant.

Rule 4. Take advantage of chances for learning so you will not be ignorant of these matters.

Education, as President Hinckley has taught us, is the Key to Opportunity.

Rule 5. Learn the laws upon which the blessings of wealth are predicated.

Rule 6. Do not send away the naked, the hungry, the thirsty or the sick or those who are held captive.” (Gibson)

As I read this article it became clear to me that I need not fear. As long as I am following the rules and the guidance of our Prophets and Apostles, and doing that which is pleasing to the Lord, I will be provided for. I cannot just sit back and wait for it happen, I have to be actively involved in making the money, but as long as I work hard and live righteously, the Lord will guide me to make the correct choices with regards to my finances.